Assalamualaikum...Selamat Pagi!
Apa khabar anda hari ni? Rasa luar biasa?? Atau biasa-biasa saja?
Untuk pengetahuan semua, bagaimana hidup kita sehari2 adalah bergantung sepenuhnya dengan apa yg kita fikirkan. Pecaya atau tidak? Tepuk dada tanyalah hati...
1. Seize the Day. Live each day as if it's
your last and overall just do it! Like they say Yesterday is history,
Tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the
present.Life presents us with a lifetime of opportunities but the
opportunity of a lifetime is got when right choices are followed. Be
present to enjoy the moment. Each day is a fresh start with options just
waiting to be explored, so what are you waiting for?
2. Be adventurous. Explore, live on the edge a little,
and embrace new challenges. Visit new places with your loved ones. Take
the road less traveled. Don’t stick to the same old, same old. Life is
more exciting with adventure!
3. Keep a journal. Record your victories in life as well as your delights. Take time to reflect on what has been previously written. Be an inspiration to yourself and others.
4.Love everyone.
- Love yourself. Focus on your inner and outer beauty to see the same
in others. Acceptance comes from within. Don’t focus on the things you
don’t like about yourself. Rather, find the things you love about
yourself.
- Love others. Love the ones who treat you right. Give love without
expecting it to be returned. Be selfless in your attitude towards
others.
5. Accept everyone. Be kind
and courteous. Enjoy the company of others. Acknowledge their goodness
rather than the differences in their beliefs. Do not judge others. Treat
others as you would like to be treated.
6.Find purpose in life. Find something that gives your
life meaning, be it being a great friend, sibling, parent, grandparent,
teacher, neighbor, etc. Once you have found something to live for,
you’ll live better. If it's not your relationships as a central purpose,
maybe it's your occupation or something that you do outside work that
makes a difference to others. The meaning of your life is something you
decide. Set goals and move toward them in small reasonable steps.
7. Give back. Be selfless in service to others. Begin with your neighbor.
Do charitable service outside of your immediate community as well.
Giving back will not only make you better as a person, it will help
others.
8. Be realistic. Set attainable goals according to your
abilities and talents. Consider each effort to be an attainment. Achieve
one step before the other towards stability and security.
9. Be positive. Focus on good thoughts and good things
will happen. Don’t be too hard on yourself. Beating yourself up won’t
help anything. Be positive. Say, think, and do positive things. Always
look on the sunny side of life. Remember that the glass isn’t half
empty, it’s half full.
10. Maintain control. Be responsible for your actions and inaction. Be true to yourself. Maintain a personal code in the situation at hand. Find common ground.
11. Listen to your heart and soul. Listen for advice, but be confident in making your own decision. Use your instinct. Don’t let others tell you what to do.
12. Laugh. Laughter is the best medicine. It releases endorphins and promotes longevity. Inner joy is beautiful!
13. List a few daily goals. Meet a new friend, swim at the lake or walk in the park. Enhance your day and initiate fun!
14. Appreciate the little things. Take a walk around your
community to experience the wonder in a way that you have never
experienced it before. Pretend that you are from a different country and
you’re here for the first time. Go out with your family and take time
to appreciate them. Take it all in and find the beauty it - it’s all
around you, just open up your eyes and look!
15. Forgive yourself and others. Release your negative energy that holds you back, your past failures, embrace whatever life offers you.
16. Erase your negative thoughts. Take actions towards
resolving the root cause any bad thoughts (anger, fear, doubt,
hate,...). Cancel each one out with a good thought called affirmations:
"I'm over that." "I am brave!" "I know I can do it!" "I forgive and I do
not hate!" You may not be feeling the best at the moment, but you will
feel better once you think about good things. Think about all of the
things life has to offer, because though things may be horrible at the
moment -- the future holds a lot of hope. It should make you smile and
not store negative feelings to be relived later.
17. Maintain a strong foundation of beliefs.
However, be humble and respect others opinions (in truth). Stand up for
what you believe in and don’t let others push you around. It's possible
to do this and still be open to other people's ideas, as they may
surprise you. Do not get caught up on little things. Know it when you're
facing major conflicts and find creative ways to live with them - does
it matter more that you disagree with a loved one or that you love them?
18. Make a bucket list.
Make a list of all the things you want to do before you die like
learning an adventurous skill, making progress in work or sport, bungee
jumping, sky diving, ziplining, etc. Check off your list! This will make
you feel like you've accomplished something.
19. Don’t hang onto the past! Don’t stress out about the
mistakes you’ve made - take them in stride and learn from them. From
each mistake spawns a lesson. Do not worry about the past because it is
gone, do not worry about the future because it is yet to come, live in
today and embrace it!
20. Follow your dreams. Make a list of everything you’ve
ever dreamed of doing and then make it happen. Dreams aren’t achieved by
sitting around and waiting. They’re achieved by getting up and working
for them! Work hard and make your dreams a reality! Work hard and play
harder! You can always fulfill your dreams. If you really want
something, find a way to achieve it!
21. Don’t give up. Do not accept defeat, even if it seems
like it’s the only option. Look at the obstacles that others have
overcome to be who they are and to fight for what they think is right.
Translate that into your everyday life and use that mindset to
accomplish simple things in life.
22. Be YOU. Have the courage to be yourself. Don’t be
shy! You are who you are! Even if society doesn’t like it, you are you,
so forget what others think and live your life! Do what you want,
because life is what you make it, and your life is yours! Nobody else is
going to live your life, so it’s up to you!
23. Accept yourself. Don’t judge yourself. This is the
very first step you must take if you really want to live your life to
the fullest. Why? Because if you’re judging yourself, or making part of
you wrong, you’ll limit yourself. And if you limit yourself you can’t
live life to the fullest.
24. Choose your friends and peer group wisely. If you screw this up, you’ll be hanging out with the bunch of losers who will limit you and each other.
25. Always be learning. No matter what the situation you
find yourself in always be focused on what you can be learning from it,
how you can be growing, what you can be taking away from any situation
so that you can respond to similar situations more effectively in the
future.
Yang saya highlight warna tu adalah perkara yg betul2 saya perlu lakukan utk menikmati kehidupan saya sebelum saya mati. Dan saya buat semua tu bukan utk diri sendiri, tetapi demi mengubah nasib anak2 dan juga membalas jasa ibu dan abah serta ibu mertua saya yg sangat saya sayangi.
Itu adalah sebahagian matlamat hidup yg ingin saya kecapi kini. Maybe ada yg berkata "Eleh.. hiporkit!! Takkan tak buat sebab nak duit...?".
Yup!! Saya mengaku saya buat biz Elken sebab saya perlukan duit, tapi perlu ingat, "Duit bukanlah segala2nya, tetapi segala2nya perlukan duit!". Saya buat utk duit sebab saya nak langsaikan hutang piutang yg membelenggu hidup saya skrg ni. Saya tak mau hidup dgn bebanan hutang smpi ke mati, saya nak bebas berbelanja terutamanya memenuhi kehendak anak2 dan memenuhi keperluan ibu abah and mak mertua yg semakin di mamah usia.
Inspirasi kehidupan saya...
